Strap-on-me lists size L as FR 40, US 8 and UK 12, for a waist of 76 to 82 cm and hips of 100 to 110 cm. For a second-skin effect the maker recommends choosing one size below your usual size.

It is made for non-motorised dildos and works best with lighter, more flexible models in sizes S to M, and it takes strap-on-me dildo bases. The silicone ring measures 3.5 to 6 cm in diameter. For larger L to XXL or heavier realistic dildos, Strap-on-me suggests a faux-leather harness with a reinforced ring.

Push the base of the dildo through the stretchy silicone ring at the front, or use the inner pocket designed for it. The flexible silicone grips the base and holds it in position while you move.

Yes. Strap-on-me presents the Heroine as an ideal harness for pegging and role reversal, light and stable enough to move freely.

Yes. The elastic waistband and the adjustable straps under the buttocks give support and stability during movement.

The harness is a soft, breathable microfibre with a fabric content of 75% nylon and 25% elastane, and the ring is stretchy silicone. It is machine washable.

It is lighter and more flexible than a leather or faux-leather harness and is worn like a piece of lingerie; Strap-on-me says it can be worn as refined lingerie in its own right.